Ben Hitchcock

Memories...

As me, katie, lew and ry sat around your grave the other week.. we cried in silence for about half an hour.. no one daring to say anything.. and then when we were all cried out.. thats when it hit us. We're sad, because we've lost such an amazing part of our lives.. but we smiled because we had the pleasure of sharing so many times with you.

They've just recently released dj ironik - stay with me.. it's your song ben and whenever it's played i do wana cry but it makes me think of you, i feel as if its just another way of keeping your memory alive.

Dont ever think for a second that theres a day goes by where i dont think about you. Because every day your in my thoughts.. i even did a talk about you at 6form the other day :) you never really quite realise just how special u were to me and how highly i thought of you and how i always believed we were meant to be as good a friends as we were.

never, ever forgotten. Ben Hitchcock - my fallen angel

Emma X (Close Friend) July 13, 2008

you no what the whole situation is very sad, because he died, you'd think alot of people would open their eyes to the lives that they are living and the way that they could end up and you'd think they would change. i knew ben and i always asked him to change his lifestyle, but now we've got 2 wasted lives. my heart realli goes out to his family, i hope that now they have caught the person that they can finally live their life, without too much pain. it's just so sad to see so many young people wasting their lives. and it should open everyone elses eyes to realise it isn't the way we shud be living, ppl are in fear to walk because of such things as our post codes, i actually believe that ridiculous, i really hope that every one can learn from this, so that no one elses parent have to go through the ordeal of burying a child when it should be the other way round, and i hope the boy gets life and rots in jail, because you should neva take the life of another person especially over something so stupid. no one was innocent in this particular case, not even ben but no one should ever have to go through what his parents went through so all of you young ppl that think your actually big and brave enough to carry weapons and be in gangs actually think what it would do to your friends and most importantly your family, and realise that you got a long life to live. two lives wasted and what for? well if theres any justice in the system he'll get life therefore there will be 2 lives wasted!

So Sad July 13, 2008

Ova a year now an it stil dont feel like ur gone. Its gd to hear da breda got nabed. Watch ova ur mum coz dis time will be hard for her. I kno u will coz i kno how much u loved ur mum. Hows tings up dere is it all bless. An il see u in a next life brother

Paul Fonceca (Friend) July 11, 2008

been a while...

hi hun x been a year now...hope you didnt think i 4got:) i think abt u almost everyday i still talk abt you and i miss you more than ever xx i hope ur in a much happier place soldier xxx sorry i havent spoke in a while..i suppose i was scared..dnt kno why tho xxx anyway love yah loads ben x

Sofie X (Friend) July 9, 2008

R.I.P

R.I.P Ben You'll never be forgotton .

Leiws (Friend) July 8, 2008

RIP Ben

My son goes to Kelsey Park and he was totally affected by Ben being taken away. He found out they caught they person who did it and ran and told me and was so happy. Even though he didn't know Ben he was hurt by what happened.
I can't believe that it has been over a year already. I hope that justice will be done and that you are happy where you are. Watch over your family forever Ben, sweet dreams. x

Sue (none) July 6, 2008

missing you xx

It's lonely here without you Ben,

Nothing seems the same,

It's hard to hide the heartache when someone speaks your name

The pain we have to live with,

The tears we never show,

The emptiness without you Ben,

No one ever knows,

Time hasn't healed the heartache,

Or dried away the tears,

We will love and miss you Ben,

For all of our years.

Nikki (Friend) July 4, 2008

xxx

helo bbe !!! i was so happy 2 hear the bastard was caught!!!! finally theres good news !!!! .......i hope he rots behind bars cos he deserves it ....ur always in ma forts ........speak to ya soon bbe .......love you and miss you soooooooo much !!!!!!!!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Paris (Friend) July 4, 2008

God Rest Your Sole

Hi Ben

I know its been a while, but your on my mind everyday still. Last few weeks have been really hard as keep crying that your gone and never coming back to us.

you ae missed so much by all of us in penge, its not the same without you, your big wide smile, your big blue eyes and you on that penge bike, only seems like yesterday.

Just wanted you to know that you are thought of every day and will never be out of our thoughts.

Miss you Ben

Lorraine (friends mum) July 3, 2008

Rip ben

Hi ben i aint been on for a while hunni but me and my boys still light candles for you each week, its wonderful that they have finally charged someone with taking you away and whilst it wont bring you back it is a comfort to know this person can never put another family through what your lovely family have had to go through.
To all bens family and friends my thoughts are with you all and i hope this brings you some comfort knowing this person is off the streets, to the young men who have showed such strength in allowing justice to be done properly and letting the police do it the right way it is a true honour to Bens memory that you have not taken revenge in any other ways, im sure ben would be very proud of you all.
To bens mum and brothers i wish you peace and i will be praying this man is brought to justice quickly.
Ben hunni be there for everyone who needs you now it will be tough but guide them and give them strength hunni.
Keep smiling that beautiful smile angel.
RIP
Tracie and boys.
xxx

Tracy Daley (someone who cares) June 30, 2008